Grief… good

Mind-numbing Curl up and hide Heart racer Guilt forger Regrets Maybe I could have done better Maybe I will dream about him Maybe he has forgiven me Is he in a better place? Should I worry? Death leave in its wake a multitude of questions Multitude of wanting to become better Death brings pressure Same…

Do you uh… use people?

It’s the use of a thing that determines its worth not how much you paid for it. I was walking to work the other day when I noticed a play-mat left outside a house. Kola and I have been after a similar play-mat for our church’s Sunday school but the last time we checked, we couldn’t…

Who Should Handle Finances; The Spender or The Saver?

I am a spender I should say I am a buyer I am a warehouse I buy for rainy seasons For dry seasons I buy for possible outcomes 🙂 I buy for my peace I buy for emergencies I rather manage my panics Than go through them I rather spend in bulk Than in thrifts…

Fam

Family… Oh what a sweet sweet complicated… somewhat erratic, beautiful belonging Family is our first society It’s where you had your first fight …first words …first explosive emotions Family is where you lay your head Family is comfort whether stressful or not The idea of belonging somewhere in itself is comforting I’ve got a new definition…

Submission // Feminism

What does submission look like to me? It’s deferring to my husband; running the littlest decision by him first …it’s praising his prowess …it’s cooking when I don’t feel like eating …it’s liking his passions; like for real …it’s making him first before me and anyone What does submission look like to my partner? It’s…

Submission

 What is submission? It is the form of yielding to a superior power or authority. It is simply deferring to another based on their position, power, or honour (such as you’ve accorded them). Submission is often seen in many relationships—parent-child, husband-wife, public offices (e.g. police, home office, post office), and in work places. What does…

Celebrating Parents…

• Is it really necessary? • Does your upbringing allow it? • Why is it expected? • Do your parents want it? • How do you reconcile the gap between been conservative and suddenly expected to show off?! I come from a very conservative family My parents are not shouty; they simply don’t show off…

Sharing Wealth

Growing up was wonderful I became a matron at an early age. I could cook, manage the house and my brothers before I knew what boyfriends were. The experience kind of shielded me from peer pressure and puberty fever I was so content running the house that I was blinded to what my age groups were…