Fam

Family… Oh what a sweet sweet complicated… somewhat erratic, beautiful belonging Family is our first society It’s where you had your first fight …first words …first explosive emotions Family is where you lay your head Family is comfort whether stressful or not The idea of belonging somewhere in itself is comforting I’ve got a new definition…

Hate?

“The only distance between us is our stories” You can only hate from afar Once you get to know the cause Or the Person Hate dissipates Understanding dawns Acceptance follows Hate is clingy It needs substance to thrive It thrives on thoughts Inner circles Clueless friends Misguided peers Lonely hate speaks I need to be…

Submission // Feminism

What does submission look like to me? It’s deferring to my husband; running the littlest decision by him first …it’s praising his prowess …it’s cooking when I don’t feel like eating …it’s liking his passions; like for real …it’s making him first before me and anyone What does submission look like to my partner? It’s…

Submission

 What is submission? It is the form of yielding to a superior power or authority. It is simply deferring to another based on their position, power, or honour (such as you’ve accorded them). Submission is often seen in many relationships—parent-child, husband-wife, public offices (e.g. police, home office, post office), and in work places. What does…

Celebrating Parents…

• Is it really necessary? • Does your upbringing allow it? • Why is it expected? • Do your parents want it? • How do you reconcile the gap between been conservative and suddenly expected to show off?! I come from a very conservative family My parents are not shouty; they simply don’t show off…

Sharing Wealth

Growing up was wonderful I became a matron at an early age. I could cook, manage the house and my brothers before I knew what boyfriends were. The experience kind of shielded me from peer pressure and puberty fever I was so content running the house that I was blinded to what my age groups were…

About Interviews…

Interviews should not be about fear! Nah nah nah I know my capabilities, my strengths are illustrated in my CV My grades tell of my academic prowess I even wrote a cover letter! I specified the things I do, and have done and will do So why then would I be required to sit before…